Toxicity is real

I do think there is such a thing as toxicity in social situations. In 2018 I made a big mistake by being around toxic people and my life took a nose dive for around 5-6 months, which im only now starting to crawl out of.

Turns out the people who tend to be toxic are the ones who say toxicity, gaslighting etc don’t exist.

A lot of American life revolves around toxicity: psychiatry, the military, the media, most if not all jobs, our president etc. People who are actively abusive towards others but do it for some (in their mind) noble reason like suppressing social deviance, instilling disciple etc

At the end of the day though I think adults need to learn that their actions have consequences and not everyone lives in a bubble.

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I believe you are correct but I would like you to go more into this.

What is toxicity exactly?

For me it is pretty simple, some people are assholes, I myself am an asshole because that’s just the way I am.

Should being an asshole be made illegal within society or on the internet?

As an asshole, I certainly hope not!

Then you also got the motherfuckers but they’re slightly different from your conventional assholes.

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we live in a society where most people wouldn’t mind being a billionaire drug empire king pin, or a stalin, communist party leader, they just want power and millions of slaves beneath them like a pharao in egypt. So yeah they’re gonna be a little ‘‘toxic’’ if you want to use that word, i prefer the world primal.

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the toxicity, of our city. Of our ciiiiity.

Now! What do you own the world?? How do you own disorder! Disorderrr!

We live in a society…

Probably toxicity can be described as a real phenomenon, I don’t know. I just think that toxic masculinity is not real, or if real it is something different from what feminists explained. For example, my definition of toxic masculinity is when a man is spreading blupill ideas, or creating myths on female’s nature, they do not understand that their actions have consequences, and young men can be harmed by such narratives.

In my view, male feminists are the pinnacle of male toxicity, they hate other men, probably for reasons related to their capability of having sex, reproducing and be successful at dating, their reasons stem from envy. Cucktears, the community, is a prime example of what I mean by that, they are toxic, they want to bring other men down.

If I want to support other men I am not toxic for this reason. If I want people to stop spreading blupill lies and stop polluting the environment with their toxicity, then I am not the toxic one.

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think male toxicity always meant taking masculinity too far and female toxicity meaning taking feminity too far

was what it meant back when it was an MRA term too

It’s completely wrong, I mean, who are feminists to tell us how masculinity should be practiced? Females created the term “malesplaining” precisely for this reason, because they do not appreciate when someone explain to them how femininity is supposed to be practiced. And they of course are right to define femininity as they please.

As for toxic masculinity, we men should define it, not females.

to be truly utilitarian you’d have to take everyone into account, i guess it depends where ur moral are

I am not utilitarian, it’s just obvious that toxic males are the ones who worship women. It is even easy to prove as they are a powerful minority, usually romantic-types, corrupted and generally evil.

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I’m curious who you were on other forums

On Vintolog1 forum I am Oxblood. The other names are all fountain pen inks that I used.