Yo, I’ve lurked and occassionally commented a thing or two on incel communities for a couple of years. I’m not exactly an incel by definition, since I had a lucky moment when I was 26 and some foreigner woman decided to have pity sex. I assume that still puts me close to the definition, since I’m still a loser who got plenty of bullshit in dating. Funniest thing is, I wasn’t really ■■■■■■■■■■■ until that day. It actually made me realize to which extent the ■■■■■■■■■ was true, because I didn’t see it coming nor put effort on it while I struggled hard at every single attempt I had done before (and after that ended). It made me embrace the cruel tragedy beyond the bluepilled illusions of control low-value men tell themselves to believe they can be equally loved and included in relationships and sex as most people do while taking for grante (or, even worse, “earned”).
Reading you guys is the most refreshing when it comes to dating truths. As a cynical moron I have a hard time trusting people (you might wonder why I learned to distrust), but hopefully I might make some ■■■■■■■■■■■ friends here.