You had no childhood nor adolescent female friends.
You didn’t have a first kiss in your teens
You didn’t go to a school dance
You didn’t go to prom
You graduated high school as a KHHV
You entered college late or not at all and became NEET
You missed out on the FWB scene in your Prime years of 18-23
You had no social circle in high school or college
Your family members tell you to marry a single mom
So the result of being incel is being a life long social outcast since you can never relate to most people who reached those social milestones. So it severely reduces your chance of ever fitting in, makes it impossible actually.
The worst part of incel is missing out on being a normal person. Also if you ever get a relationship she will have all the power because she’s a female ,but also because you’re so socially retarded it means you totally rely on her for your needs and she knows you’ll be an incel for years after she breaks up with you.