You can call me Sammy. John Reed invited me into here. Im not a femcell but im trying to educate myself more on whats going on in these communities so I dont only have the outside perspective from people who dont actually investigate. People whos opinions tends to skew way more towards all incels being openly hostile to women. I try to apply principle of charity in everything I can so here I am.
Im a bisexual girl but I prefer girls generally. Im all up for a convo anytime. Dont worry about coming off as creepy cuz I really dont mind. Socializations hard. I may be shitty with replies but it wouldnt be out of malice.
I have really bad BDD despite people saying im attractive so I there are times when my thoughts about myself are very similar to alot of thoughts you guys/girls all have about yourselves. Im 5’10 and 125lbs but I cant help but see myself as fat, fat headed, ugly, stupid and all that. I know its likely untrue on an intellectual level but emotionally im just convinced im all these things. I also have an extreme irrational fear of kidnappings and getting sex trafficked and it keeps me inside on most days.
Knowing that, its probably no surprise that I try as hard as I can to avoid content thats especially hostile towards women. Im all for restoration over retribution. Construction over destruction. Rehumanization over dehumanization. So while I try to understand where people are coming from, I cannot agree with divisive anti-female/anti-male crap that puts the sins of some other people onto others of the same gender. Everyones an individual and is responsible for themselves and only themselves.
That all being said, Im glad to be here and to see where it goes