26 year old virgin

Hi,
I’m currently a 26 year old male virgin. The sexual frustration is absolutely killing me at this point. I have asperger’s syndrome, which makes it extremely difficult to make friends, never mind talk to the opposite sex. I’ve tried pretty much every dating platform/site you can think of, but it’s hopeless. I’ve been on a few dates, but it’s never gone beyond date number 2. The girls have always said “It was nice meeting you, but I don’t think it can go anywhere” I’m pretty seriously looking at getting an escort from adultwork to let me have sex with her, but then I’ll forever remember that I had to pay for my first time. Does anyone have any advice or know any femcels looking for sex? Or any other advice for me?

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Welcome!

welcome to yourenotalone aspie

It’s fairly painless

Your first idea was good, hookers.

Just hang around here I guess. Some like that have popped here now and again.

welcome brotha

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I’m exactly the same as you, but 27.

My first piece of advice to you is that incel-femcels aren’t real. Otherwise, you wouldn’t be a virgin at 26 years old for something as trivial as high-functioning autism.

My second piece of advice for you is to never use dating apps again if you wish to retain what remains of your soul and sanity.

Welcome!
I’m about your age with little action and no sex so sadly I have no real answer on how to get out of that. I wouldn’t waste too much times on dating sites. Lots of picky people and weirdos.

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Hiring a hooker can be very helpful. At the same time, I’m a big advocate of money.

Money, money, money.

I don’t think you should get money for women, but just to feel more confident in yourself.

Working gives you something to do, even if it’s just $30 a week, having something to tie you down mentally promotes well being.

Also good nutrition and staying away from drugs is probably the best thing you can do for yourself long term.